Don't get distract by loving emotions

Finally, i am able to stay home only for dinner with my brother's family. My adorable niece always takes my heart away whenever i come home, i always said to myself, i will come home at evening, then changed to next day morning, then noon, then afternoon... I end up coming to my apt at 11pm. I love my nice so much, so it really doesn't feel good when i put my goal and personals beside , to play with my niece. I feel like i am actually living at my brother's life instead of my own reality. Yes, to go for your goal, easy and loving can be the comfort trap !