Where is the anger coming from? are we able to switch it over

I am very angry right now, the more people around me telling me with their pitty eyes: are you ok? i just want to know you are fine and you are loved? The more people come around me with their hugs, the more defines i get. What the F##k! Is everybody brain washed sometimes? If you have to relation to my personal life, never pay attention about who i am and what i do, and now you called for a huge care and love andhen ask me to pay money for something thing? Not working that way? Then i thought where is that anger coming from, is it really those people annoyed me ? Or i annoyed myself to block me from accepting new care and new way of love. Is" you have to know my story and follow me on facebook all the time, know how awesome i am and connect with me, then i can accept your help" even making sense? A lot of questions.