Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Owning your choice

Very often, I made decision and didn't get the value as I wanted.  I started to regret the decision I made and start to blame myself and the person involved in the decision.
I wonder what's the real issue here and who is the one should take responsibility.
Sometimes,  since we already sit in the restaurant,  even though, it's expensive, but shame to move; friend is asking to eat in a pricy restaurant and it's my turn to pay,but too shameful to say no; friend ask me to buy coffee for her but didn't have intention to pay me back, I am not happy,but shamful to ask little money; paid for a friend to register a dinner party,but 3 months later, still not pay me back,but can't ask her to pay back .  It's all around money. Because I do have a belief and value on where I should spend my money. . But why lie ,and why shamful. It's personal image issue.  need to improve!

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